Communication – 5
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Think Before You Speak
(Proverbs 15:1-33)
As previously mentioned, good communication involves both speaking and listening. In addition, there is a third aspect to good conversation: thinking. Proverbs 15:28 tells us that the “heart of the righteous studieth to answer, but the mouth of the wicked poureth out evil things.” In other words, those who are righteous are not impetuous with their speech.
In an age of hyperbole, radio “shock jocks,” and sensationalist program hosts, thoughtful communication receives little popular attention. The Biblical standard for speech, however, is think before you speak. Christians should weigh their words carefully and communicate accurately and cautiously.
Reasoned speech does not blurt out everything that’s on its mind. Rather, it sorts through thoughts, choosing the right words to express the right ideas in the right tone. Reasoned speech ponders before it pronounces. Reasoned speech also knows when to remain silent.
When talking with your spouse, don’t aim for verbosity or rapidity. Think things through completely, weigh your words carefully (especially on sensitive matters), and watch your tone continually. Such are the marks of “righteous” communication.
