Communication – 3
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Keep It Sweet
(Ephesians 4:25-32—Yes, read it again!)
The initial days of infatuation, dating, and new love typically reflect guarded, considerate communication. However, as the relationship deepens, it is not uncommon for communication to degenerate. Unfortunately, after marriage verbal discussion sometimes takes a negative turn toward high-volume rudeness and even abuse.
This degenerative trend in some marriages defies Scriptural admonition. God has laid the ground rules for all communication, and these rules must be followed—especially in the most sacred of human relationships, marriage. What are the “rules?” Let’s examine Ephesians 4:
• Honesty (25)—no exaggeration such as “You always…” or “You never…”
• Control (26)—High volume, profanity, and name calling are out of bounds.
• Tact (29)—Always consider your partner’s feelings.
• Forgiveness (31)—You must not harbor ill-will nor nurse bitterness.
• Repair (32)—Demonstrate kindness and tenderness before, during, and after the discussion.
Honesty, control, tact, forgiveness, and repair—5 Biblical precepts to help you to “keep it sweet” in communication.
