Tuesday, April 14, 2009
When Love Grows Cold
(John 21)
By all accounts, Peter had been the most outspoken of Jesus’ disciples. In fact, he put his foot in his mouth more frequently than any other New Testament character. He was passionate, determined, devoted and fiery. Like a shooting star, however, his devotion quickly dissipated at Christ’s trial and crucifixion. After his infamous denial of Christ, Peter “threw in the towel” on the ministry and returned to his fishing business, influencing some of the other disciples to do so as well. In short, Peter’s love had grown cold.
God is sympathetic to the vicissitudes of human emotion. He understands our weaknesses and failures. And, because He understands, He approaches us with both compassion and conviction when our love grows cold. In John 21 Jesus walked the lonely seashore seeking His former friends. His presence interrupted their fishing expedition, and soon they were back in the presence of their Master. Obviously, the first few moments had to be awkward.
Rather than rebuke Peter for his failure, our Lord gently questioned, “Lovest thou me?” Jesus did not demand an explanation and apology for Peter’s denial. Rather, He sought restoration of the relationship. His primary concern was not settling the score; His primary concern was Peter’s heart of love for Him.
Sometimes we just grow cold in our love for the Lord. Remember, Jesus comes to us gently in conviction and love—wooing us back to Himself. Personal revival happens when the embers of love glow again.
